「我不乖，我爸媽才打我」、「因為我功課沒有寫完，所以被打，痛過就好了」、「我晚上不睡覺，所以被打」、「爸媽說我說謊，要打到我不說謊」、「我便當盒沒有拿出來洗，所以打我，要我記住」一句句受虐孩子的話語，顯示著教養被放入不乖、不聽話就要被打的邏輯，在成人的世界中不被允許的事情，卻一次次的在這些受虐孩子的生活中加工、驗證、習得無助、接受。
寒暑假親子相處增加 衝突狀況多
根據衛生福利部保護服務司資料顯示，2017年第一四季共計59,912件通報案，而2017年兒少保護案件死亡人數高達155人，平均每周有三名兒少死亡。據統計分析顯示，兒童少年保護案件受虐類型在於身心虐待多達六成，且施虐者本身因素也有六成缺乏親職教育知識、情緒不穩定以及習於體罰，照顧者不當管教可能在家中、鄰里或社區就能聽聞。而在寒暑假期間，照顧者轉換、或是親子相處時間增加後，反而親子衝突頻頻上演，言語暴力、肢體暴力正慢慢的侵蝕親子關係。
熟記五字訣 共同保護受虐兒
家扶基金會兒表示，「保護兒童，沒有人是局外人」，社會大眾共同保護受虐兒可熟記快樂親子五步驟，其五字口訣為「不閉打小還」(「不」要生氣、「閉」上眼睛、「打」給家扶、「小」孩抱抱、「還」要大笑；音同不必打小孩)」；以及兒童自我保護五步驟：軟、拖、喊、報、逃，確實實行。
暴力零容忍 兒少保護從你我做起
臺北市政府社會局許立民局長表示，暑假到了，孩子與家長的接觸又很多，天氣又熱，很多人會心情煩躁控制不了自己的情緒，社區鄰里長可多留意社區民眾，在社會安全網裡有很多很好的資源，透過家扶親子五步驟，讓自己的情緒可以和緩下來。
南台北家扶中心王金敦主任表示，教養方式百百種，最不可取的方式就是責打。家扶中心協助許多受虐孩子，他們每天生活在恐懼之中，他們受傷的身體與心靈需要被發現、關心及保護，不要將家庭衝突當成家醜，請打開家門接受相關協助，讓兒少擁有安全零暴力的童年。
"I don't want to, my parents just hit me." "Because I didn't finish my homework, I was beaten and it hurts." "I don't sleep at night, so I was beaten." "My parents said that I lied. I have to lie, I don’t lie," "I didn't take it out and wash it, so I hit it, I want to remember it." The phrase of a battered child shows that the education is being put into trouble, and if it is not obedient, it will be beaten. Logic, things that are not allowed in the adult world, are processed, verified, and learned helplessly and repeatedly in the lives of these abused children.
Increased conflicts between parents and children during the summer and winter vacations
laennecAccording to the Department of Protection and Welfare of the Ministry of Health and Welfare, there were 59,912 notifications in the first quarter of 2017, while in 2017, the number of deaths in child protection cases was as high as 155, with an average of three deaths per week. According to statistical analysis, the type of child and adolescent protection cases is up to 60% of physical and mental abuse, and 60% of the abuser's own factors lack knowledge of parental education, emotional instability and corporal punishment. Caregivers may not be disciplined at home. The neighborhood or the community can be heard. During the summer and winter vacations, after the caregiver changes, or the time of getting along with the family is increased, the parent-child conflicts are frequently staged. Speech violence and physical violence are slowly eroding parent-child relationships.
Remember the five-character ? to protect the abused children
The Family Foundation said that "protecting children, no one is an outsider", the public can jointly protect the abused children and can memorize the five steps of happiness and parenthood. The five-character slogan is "not closing the small and returning" ("no" is angry "Close" the eyes, "hit" to the family, "small" children hug, "return" to laugh; the sound does not have to play children"; and the five steps of child self-protection: soft, drag, shout, newspaper Escape, indeed, practice.
laennecZero tolerance of violence, little protection from you and me
Director Xu Limin of the Taipei Municipal Government Social Affairs Bureau said that the summer vacation is over, the children have a lot of contact with the parents, the weather is hot, many people will be upset and unable to control their emotions, and the community neighbors can pay more attention to the community, in the social safety net. There are a lot of good resources to help your emotions ease through the five steps of helping your parents.
Director Wang Jindun of the South Taipei Family Support Center said that there are hundreds of ways to educate, and the most undesirable way is to blame. The Home Help Center assists many battered children. They live in fear every day. Their injured bodies and minds need to be discovered, cared for and protected. Don't treat family conflicts as family ugliness. Please open the door to receive relevant assistance to keep children safe. Zero-violent childhood.
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